It's important to remember that accepting the trials of mortality has, until very recently, been just a fact of life (no obvious pun). My parents did it, my grandparents and my further ancestors all married and had children (obviously), never giving it much more thought than these institutions are what everyone was expected to do and it was the basic sign of being a respectable adult.
We live in a "modern" time that the age-old expectations or marriage and family have been pushed aside by a growing group of DINKs, singles, NEETs, and so on. Sloughing established standards seem to have become something of a flaunted recreational sport, usually by showing young single women traveling the world's tourist spots or pulling dogs into their liberated and well-heeled "van lives".
Some six-thousand years ago, Adam and Eve set the standard, eschewed the easy man-child Eden, and took the choice to stay together as a married couple and face mortality together and naturally having children. God had a (now mostly forgotten) commandment about marriage to help them along:
24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Being "one flesh" would, by nature, produce children and lead to parenting inherited from previous generations.
Young couples today must face a similar "first parent" choice under peer pressure conditions that test their faith in God and their courage to stand against growing social standards to forgo marriage and childbearing. God's first law of "cleaving" gets thrown under the cultural bus as a matter of course.
24 And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of well set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.
25 Thy men shall fall by the sword, and thy mighty in the war.
26 And her gates shall lament and mourn; and she being desolate shall sit upon the ground.
The solution is to ignore modern influences and embrace the morals of productive marriage and family-building. It is a hard thing to put aside the constant clamor that marrying is patriarchal slavery and childbearing and child-rearing in our world is tantamount to a prison sentence and throwing children into pauperism. A generous God will bless our obedience to his "cleaving" commandment and the worst predictions of the future hell for families will be largely overcome with compensatory blessings.