"Jesus loves us all unconditionally..." From the way so many people behave (beyond spoken rationalizations), they think that they are doing Jesus some great favor in letting him be around them. "Can I bring you your slippers?" "Would you like a softer pillow?" To these questions from the Christ-ish figure which most people demand, a spitting in the face is what those same people give as a first answer, and then say: "You are not offering me enough to be acceptable as my Savior. My Jesus would do everything so I don't have to do, well, anything!" From all the talk, you would think that one of our purposes in life is to judge whether this Jesus character fulfils our grandest desires at zero cost to us. In holy writ, it reads the other way around: The Lord is judging us to see if we are fit to be one of his people - if we offer him our "broken hearts" and our "contrite spirits". Overly-self-compassionate Jesus-demanders ...